Yeah yeah PROBLEM... HE GOT NO BRAINS!
By SLUT. At 28 if that's the best you can do...
My husband is big. It limits my enjoyment. I also had female problems.
Anything over 5.5" kills it for me since I have to keep telling the guy to not bottom out. Even once he learns not to it sucks since you know he's always holding back. For me long cocks are only good for anal and even that's only when I feel like doing an enema first, Otherwise for fast and dirty anal the sweet spot is 4-5.5".
The best thing about short cocks is they can pound as hard and fast as they want and I can just enjoy the great waves of pleasure.
My sister always tells me her best fuck was with the single 5" guy she was with.
My wife's first two lovers had big cocks, that hurt her and actually injured her. She ended up having sex only once with the first and three times with the second, and had thought of sex as something that was never going to be enjoyable. My 6.5 inches gave her her first pleasure, her first orgasm, and our love life is good. I also had another girlfriend who didn't like big ones, and another for whom mine was big, but because I never hammered her with it until I was sure she was sufficiently lubricated she still liked it. As against that I had a two previous girlfriends who admitted they missed previous lovers with big ones. So it all seems to depend on individual preferences.
In my long experience and I had lots of cocks being a showgirl for a career, the big ones never got as hard as I liked. It was like fucking foam rubber. I recall one lover with a little steel rod and he gave it to me like a little machine then threw on a condom and did my ass until I came. I miss him and his little rammer.