No kink or weird sex story. Just complaining a little.

My boyfriend, who sees himself as being my one and only boyfriend, is too possessive. He got into my pants (well I didn't have my pants on) at a party where people got naked and danced and he 'got' me quite by accident, I wasn't ready for him, but he got me anyway and did his thing. Great accomplishment, right? A guy fucks a girl and she is now his.

I can't break away, just can't. I have rules now. I have been presented to his family. I am expected to be housewifey, which is not in my nature. I can do with the exclusive sex, I get it that he doesn't want me sleeping around, him having those rights doesn't upset me. But I don't have the same rights, if he can get some on the side, then I am supposed to let him. If I don't want him to get some on the side, then I have to 'work' to keep him. And that includes the housewifey stuff. Those are part of the 'rules'.

His sister came over to get me. Pack my stuff and get in her truck and leave. I never made it to the end of the block. I get what I deserve. There are a couple of kinky things, he likes to spank my bare butt. Not a spanking, like correction spanking, just spanking me when I get out of the shower. And one small other little thing, I have to wear his 'ring of power'. It is not an engagement ring, it is more like a wedding ring, it shows that I am off the market, and I am to respect it.

I am only 23, he is 31. And he has been around. Military officer, college ROTC, backpacking in Australia, lots of girls everywhere. I have heard about almost all of them. His stories start with 'I have to tell you when', and he goes on to tell me how he conquered this girl. They are not fake stories, I have proved up many of them. I am too be proud that I am the 'keeper', the others were for practice.

I am schedule to get married next May. We have to wait because the wedding is going to be at his grandparents' house, and they have a beautiful yard so it has to be a spring wedding and that is where his sister got married (the one that helped me that morning). Their family is all military, so her statement to me that morning when I asked her to take me back was 'your are signing up for the duration'.

Her brother is her hero. I guess he is my hero too.

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by Anonymous

Sounds like you need to bail and FAST !

If you're already complaining this much, it will just get worse.

I'm a guy, considerably older than him too, and let me tell you this:

Someone who's 31 isn't old enough to really have 'been around'.

I'm 64 and there's shit I didn't see, do, or learn until I was over 40 and could start to understand it a little better.

I'm still learning.

THAT's how it works.
And, NO, he doesn't get to fool around on the side but expect you to be true.
That's macho bullshit from another era, just like sexual harassment.

Sweetie, you're 'not signing up for the duration' unless you're actually enlisting in the army.

And "the Ring of Power"?
Really?
Who is he, Frodo Baggins or something? lol

Sorry, not mocking you.
Fuck him and his military family.
You'll never be good enough for them anyway if they have that attitude.

Leave ASAP and don't look back.
Or you never will.


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by Anonymous

Agree with #1, take your life back before its too late!!!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

Agree with #1 also. Why do people tolerate shit like this in 2018??? I read things people say like "I just can't leave" or "I can't seem to break away" YES YOU CAN. You tell him to kick rocks and you're leaving; simple as that. This will never get better. As you know, relationships are the best in the beginning then they decline. If you think it's bad now, wait till he's legally bound to you! Just leave.

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