guilt, schmilt... you got a horney neighbor- enjoy it while you can. Be discreet!!
Yes, but now I can't even look my wife in the eye's. I feel like the biggest sack of crap, and I don't know how I'll ever get over these feelings of guilt. I thought about confessing to her.
Confessing to her and you will only bring more pain to everyone involved...... and she might even want to do something to get back at you and then its downhill from ther
Just some friendly advice from someone who has been there (well, sort of). Mine was a bit more complicated, an emotional affair, borderline physical. It was my husbands best friend, and it just sort of happened gradually. I confessed it all to husband and broke all contact with the other man. It has been 3 years and I'm still paying for it, my husband still has nightmares, there is a tension and distance between us now that will never go away. Don't tell. It might help relieve your guilty conscience, but in the end only do more damage. Your guilt alone will be punishment enough. Don't torture your wife too. Just stay clean. Been there, done that. Good luck to you.
Let this be your confession place. If you tell, it will only be worse.
I would get your wife and neighbor together. Have a few drinks. When theyre both relaxed, suggest they slip into something comfortable. When they come out have them stand on a plastic sheet. Tell the wife what happened. THROW IN A GALLON OF BABY OIL. ENJOY.
You'll have to get over it, otherwise you'll make yourself miserable.
Just stay true, and don't do it again!!
I wouldn't worry about it, she's probably cheatin' on you too.
if you truly love you wife youll keep this to yourself and spare her the agony of knowing that the man she loves and has given her life to has let her down in the worst way possible. live with your guilt and let it serve as a lesson to you that you never want to do this again. telling her may alieve your guilt but it would damage her and even if she could forgive you shell never forget and would always wonder what your doing with who. i went through this with my exhusband. he told me and though i did forgive him, i have never forgotten to this very day. i dont trust him any further than i could throw him. i spent a lot of years trying to forget and it only made us both miserable.i COULDNT forget and in turn i WOULDNT let him forget either.i would have rather not known at all. sometimes the old addage "ignorance is bliss" is very true.
dont hurt her any more than you have in the past or will in the future by doing or saying the stupid things married couples do and say to each other to intentionally cause the other pain.telling her and and causing that kind of pain will only help you and that is a very selfish reson to come clean.
save your marriage bud, confess
you guys are such idiots, you have to talk to youre wife about this, you dont really have much of another option, talk to her when she is nice and relaxed, and see what she feels about it, if the marriage was meant to be, and she ruly loves you, then she should be mad at you, but not want to ruin any relatonship she has with you over it. you need some marital counsling too.if you dont tell her, then youre slapping her in the face.
you have laready done that once.
Do you really wanna do it again?
you should just confess to her while you can because if she
finds out later (and she probably will) she'll be even more angry with you than if you were just to confess to her and explain how bad you feel about what you did.
look ima put it 2 u like this: the truth will eventually come out, if not by you then the girl, secrets last but-so-long. do the smart thing and let her know now b4 its too late and ur sittin in divorce court or worse
Hope you didn't catch warts, herpes, chlamydia, trichomonosis, syphillis, gonorrhea, or some other disease and pass it on to your wife. How will you explain? Esp. since some of those diseases don't give any symptoms at all or syptoms show up later.
Oh well, Poor horn-dog who couldn't say "no" cus some bitch in heat showed up. Was the load you blew worth it?
Ummmnn, I am not a doctor...or a nurse for that matter, but don't you catch trichomonosis from eating undercook pork or
certain types of waterfowl? LOL.
Yes, actually it was the best oral I have ever had in my life! She was an oral-master and totally hot in everyway!
If I did not love my wife so much I would try for her too!
You're stupid, How the hell do you catch half of those things from a little suck-suck? Sounds like you're fammiliar with STD's though.