Wow were to begin me and my wife has been having a few issues made worse by her unemployment. Enter a female coworker. We began flirting and talking on the phone. Well lo and behold I have developed feeling for this young lady. I know I know I am old enough to understand the reprecussions I shouldnt have let this happen. We have not had sex and we will not until we can be together if that happens We go out and we have kissed I really enjoy being around this lady she makes me very happy and she is always on my mind right not I am torn between loyalty to my wife and my heart.