I asked his wife to leave him but she wants to stand by her man. Well, when I get back I am going to ask her again. I don't want her to get hurt but he is now my man so she needs to give him a divorce.
He is a cheater and so are you. If he cheats on his wife you will be no better with him. But maybe that is what you deserve.
if you are a married man and you are fucking a woman on the side....well, she will always be the woman that you fuck like an animal but on the side, not your wife... yeah sure I will make you believe I love you because I want you to suck my cock and I want to cum in your mouth but...nah I already know you are a slut, and we dont want to marry a slut...so dont divorce your husband, he actually wants to be married to you, for the other guy you are just his cum dumpster, thats all, we dont want to marry that
She is wiser and you rocked your boat ,now don't rock her boat.He is treating you as a concubine,that's all.