So I'm 'bisexual' because I kiss a girl. Really? I am 100% dick oriented, if anything I am passive/submissive. The man rules. I kiss a, that is one, girl. One. We snuggle. We cuddle. We spoon. We kiss, and we 'caress', not grope. Girls have more to caress, that includes caressing the face. Caressing, hugging, snuggling, spooning, kissing is not out and out sex. The man has sex, gets up and leaves. We want it to last, so we caress and kiss after he is on the couch watching TV. We keep the sexual energy alive. Does that make us bi? Or does it just show that straight women can remain sexually charged by hugging and kissing, and we can make the love feeling last all night by cuddling and spooning. He can't, so we learned to keep it alive together. He owns the couch, we own the bedroom.