We started rooming together when we both had jobs at the same company. We were fresh out of college and broke and the HR department put us together. That was eight years ago and we still live together. We do everything together, we really don't have separate lives. People assume that we are full out lesbians, but we are mostly platonic. I don't doubt that we have bonded to the point that we are one for the other, but we do not have sex, what we have is something else.

For the first four years we actually had separate bedrooms until one night she was getting ready for bed and I went to her room to talk to her and she turned and took off her top and bra and stood in her panties facing me and let me look at her like that. It was the very first time I had ever seen her breasts. She let me look for a long time and then she stepped out of her panties and let me look. I won't say that all sorts of things didn't happened to me, I got anxious looking at her and she told me that she didn't want to sleep alone. She walked over to me and started to undress me until I was naked with her. She asked me which room we should use that it was up to me where we slept. That night we agreed that we would use my room because I had a newer bed. We walked naked to my room and she got in bed and asked me to get in bed with her. She touched me and I touched her, she kissed me on the mouth and said that she wanted to be held so she got on her side and I got behind her and put my arms around her and we fell asleep like that.

We live together and sleep together, we do everything together but we are not sexual. Yes I like to see her naked and I don't mind at all if she sees me naked. More than once we have showered together and I won't say that some times our hugging in bed doesn't get a bit intense, and sometimes she wants us to hug naked. We are affectionate in a sisterly sort of way but we have never broken down to actually have sex.

So to sum it up I think we are platonic lesbians.