Confession #39448 | Anonymous Confessions

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Straight Female / 27

Well, this may be embarassing for a woman at my age but I am willing to confess that I never had an actual boyfriend, never been involved into a romantic relationship with a man, never been kissed by a man and so on.
I was always too busy with school and now with my job that I can hardly make time to go out anymore.
Maybe I was too stubborn to admit that I want a man in my life to love and take care of me when in fact I was crying inside, I felt often depressed and felt to be loved by a man. I am actually kinda shy and reserved at first so I might have a bad vibe and push man away, I don't know really..
The thing is that I don't want to sound desperate or look vulnerable being single I always wanted to be independent and I am now the only thing that is missing right now in my life is a good and caring man. And what I know for sure while I am geting older is that I should have been more open and stress free.
This is my punishment for not taking care for my love life...maybe my man will appear someday in my life, I just don't know when.. :(

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It all depends upon how you view life.Cultural differences apart,there are women and men who marry one person and she/he becomes the only person of the opposite sex for them.They are happy.Hailing from the western hemisphere,where men and women start dating and continue till the right person is chosen,you feel that you are doing something odd.I do not agree.Meeting people at the pubs or clubs have ended up in most relationships getting into difficulties since these are superficial and lust based.Not love,mind well.

You need a person who will really be worthy of your trust and respect and in that context, what you have done intuitively is probably the right course of action--though it appears to you that you have kept academics and job in the forefront and that is wrong.There is no person like you and yet there is something also known as luck or destiny .So when that person appears on the horizon both of you will gravitate toward each other.Be patient.

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You are not getting older.You are growing wiser.Just having sex with innumerable partners to settle down with one among them or yet somebody else is hardly any normal life.Stand tall and everything will be fine. You have not looked for shallow people.That's all.

Were all those who have had affairs/relationships happy?They might have claimed so.Don't consider yourself punished .Best luck.

27 IS NOT OLD.People have married later and are happy and are blessed with healthy,well-behaved children.

Most of my women friends have subconcious barriers theyve put up because men hit on them all the time.

Usually if you show even the smallest interest in a man, they will pick up on it immediately and you can communicate and see if you have a connection and are interested in pursuing. The best relationship I had was a friends first thing and it started out online. We lived close however.

18 years later I love her more than ever. She would do anything to make me happy and I would do the same for her.

You are not too old, you have your whole life ahead of you. Be selective, but open.

When you find the right one, they put your wants, needs, and desires ahead of theirs.

Usually when a person can feel how giving their partner is, they will want to give back unlimited love as well.

Love is not what can I get out of it, its what can I do for the person I love...

thanks for all your comments it made to feel a little better, much confident thinking that maybe it was better for me to be single it would have been much worse to be with a man I don't love.Maybe I should wait to meet the right man even though it is not that simple, it's kinda hard to find decent single men at this age most of them have gf, married even with kids, etc.

Honey, I empathize. I am 37. I have been fucked once. And that was when I was 35. And I wasn't fucked because a man cared for me. I was fucked because I was careless. I had never been fucked, so no matter how much you think you know, you don't know how to throw a man off of you. I had never been slapped, I was slapped, slapped hard, spun me around. I had never had anyone look at my asshole, not even a doctor, he not only saw my asshole, he got his finger in my asshole and he got his dick in my asshole. I bled a lot, I was torn up pretty bad. I had to get two stiches. Being bent over at a doctor's office, even if she was a female proctologist, having her sew two stiches in your asshole and get a lecture about anal sex. My asshole hurt for weeks, even after it healed, I was scared to take a dump. He stuck his dirty dick in my vagina, pulled it out of my ass into my vagina. How I didn't catch anything I don't know, I was so scared I had caught some horrible infection. I had always only eaten pussy. I have sworn to myself that I will never have a dick get close to me again. I will spend the rest of my life eating pussy. There is a reason why women get along, because there is not a man in the middle. If I have to be suck up to her I will. Whether you suck up to a man or a woman, you have to learn to suck up, I suck up. I gave up on a lot of bull shit in the last two years. I have to suck up, I suck up. I don't want another dick in my ass. I can assure you you don't want a dick in your ass, you don't need a dick in your pussy either. Find a nice woman, a girl who needs to have human contact, find a girl who will suck up to you and who you are willing to suck up to. But whatever you do, don't let some asshole fuck your asshole.

#6 You bled from being fucked in the asshole? What did he use, a wood file?

WTF. You're an oddball. But I agree with number three. There should be a culture change where the cougars are available for the young men at their peak and everybody would be much happier. All the young people having kids that everybody else is responsible for, that have a sorry upbringing, that are a menace to society, would probably decline. Just let the older women that have the same sex drive as the young boys fuck. Moms should have their friends service their sons etc. she chose a route of a responsible person, didn't get m****ted by a college professor, boss, or politician and didn't fit into this fucked up world yet. #6 got ass fucked by an animal because she threw herself into a bad situation because she needed attention. Beware of alcohol, the legal drug of the corrupt law enforcement. Some of the best women were the biggest whores in their younger days. Then decided to grow up and did. This could go on and on. Hell, just hire a date and demand what you want and explore. Eventually you will start fitting in.

I don't know what happened in here but my post was clearly derailed with really inappropriate details by that poster saying that I should turn into a lesbian because she had a bad experience with a man.
I specified from the start that the main reason for not having a relationship with a man was the fact that I haven't find a man to complete me so I didn't want to rush things or hook up with the first male that came across of me begging to be loved.

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