Why not tell her to show what she has got,instead of just sitting there and watching you?Then a journey might begin.
I'm sorry, I've read a couple confessions like this before that talk about how a young adult daughter is supposedly super turned on by their mom's hairy pussy, and that is one of the stupidest things I've ever heard. No regular young woman is turned on by an old lady's mass of pubic hair, especially her mom's. But hey, if that's some weird dude's fantasy, okay then...
Agree with #2. Fake as fuck. Especially the "it isn't harming anyone" attitude. It's like you've never met a woman before.
Let her catch you fingering your c**t