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Im 19 and i met my current bf 3 months ago. i had never been with another guy before, i had been giving him blowjobs for about3 weeks when he asked for full on sex. It hurt, terribly, and it still hurts every time we do it. i always ask to do it doggy style so he cant see my reaction but its becoming pratically unbarable.

I really really like him but im afrid he will break up eith me if i tell him the truth. what should i do?

BTW he said he hates being on the bottom.

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by Anonymous

Kinda like telling the dr. it hurts when I do this, and he says, well don't do that.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

are you using lube and taking small steps in preparing yourself for penetration by gradually inserting fingers or small toys? Your boyfriend sould be respectful of your body and attentive to your needs, if you need time to relax into things he should allow this.

The position your using allows for deep penetration but leaves you little control, although this may sound like a good proposition, it is probably not ideal for first time sex.

You both need to learn how enjoyable anal sex can be and it would be useful to forget about gender stereotypes and top/bottom roles, find out what it means to you and how best your body's connect with one another.

There are many positions you could try but if you don't feel like you can deal with looking your lover in the face whilst in the act, I'd question whether you're really ready to have sex with each other at all.

I'm sure he wouldn't knowingly hurt you so telling him he has might make him feel guilty, and this guilt could come to sour his feelings. Maybe its bot necessary to tell him but try not to hide things from him in future. Remember that communication is key to good sex, maybe you should take it a bit slower.

good luck in future.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

Yep, we use lubricant and he fingers me for a while. (This is soo gross talking about this)

im still afride of being honest to him. i will just tell him in to tired.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

there's no reason why anal sex should hurt, its just a case of needing to be relaxed.

It seems like your (understandably) a bit put off by your past experiences. Unfortunately some of the anal muscles are not under our concious control, so even if u are trying really hard to relax it doesn't always help.

All you can do is try again, when you think your ready for it. Make sure he gives you time to adjust to his cock before he starts thrusting and don't let him start wanking you off too soon cos it'll automatically make u tense up again (obviously you can later just not at first)

hope it works out :)

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

Get a girlfriend you fag. I hate fags.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

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by Anonymous

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by Anonymous

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by Anonymous

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

Im sorry to hear its painful for you. I only exiperience pain at. Tthe starthen then its great. Even with really hung guys. 10" or so. Of like to have a steady lover, but my girlfriend wouldn't understand. Lol

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

It sounds as if your anxiety is the problem, but there are some physical things you can do. It's a lot easier if you loosen up with a dildo first of all, preferably one bigger than your lover. Use this on yourself when your boyfriend's not around. Also if he's very long, it might be easier if you lie flat when he penetrates you. Another technique is to try doggy fashion for a while, then missionary, then doggy again, which will feel better the second time.

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