A little over year ago my older brother died, he was 69, his wife is now 65, and lives with one of her sons and his family. All her family are in the same town, I live 1300 miles away, but have always went to see then once a year, her and I have always been good friends, but nothing more. Now she has the idea that she wantes to come live with me, I've been divorced for over 20 years, and there are no woman in my life. I love seeing my nephews and they want me to come out for thanksgiving, but I'm thiking about not going because I don't want the hassel of putting up with my sister inlaw wanting to ride back with me. What are some opinions on this. Oh I almost forgot, my sil is way over weight and has lots of medical problems.