I am getting married this weekend and have everything set to have the wedding of my dreams, except I still haven't told my fiance that I can't stand his cousin who is also his best friend and the best man. I cringe at the thought of this guy standing at the altar with us and making the toast. I actually instructed our d.j. to not announce a dance between the bride/best man and groom/maid of honor because I think I would puke if he touched me. My husband-to-be doesn't know any of this. I'm not sure he'd marry me if he knew how much I hate his cousin/best friend.
Why am I so revolted? "John" used to be in a racist gang. He still has many bigoted feelings and has multiple tatoos about white power. He has four kids by four different teenaged Aryan princesses (think Brittaney Spears wannabees with bad teeth and little education) whose older brothers and daddies were in this gang with him. He purposely doesn't work a regular job so he doesn't have to pay taxes. He tells racists and homophobic jokes and then says that he doesn't understand why people get offended.
My husband-to-be is a sweet guy who says John has substance abuse problems because of a back injury and is basically harmless. I don't want this man in our home or around our kids when we have children.
Why am I so revolted? "John" used to be in a racist gang. He still has many bigoted feelings and has multiple tatoos about white power. He has four kids by four different teenaged Aryan princesses (think Brittaney Spears wannabees with bad teeth and little education) whose older brothers and daddies were in this gang with him. He purposely doesn't work a regular job so he doesn't have to pay taxes. He tells racists and homophobic jokes and then says that he doesn't understand why people get offended.
My husband-to-be is a sweet guy who says John has substance abuse problems because of a back injury and is basically harmless. I don't want this man in our home or around our kids when we have children.
