I have been married for 13 years. My husband treats good in some aspects but yells at me like a child everyday. He has mad it so I don't go anywhere at all unless he takes me. My big night out is getting my hair done with my best friend Sue. Sex is seldom if any. I have told Pita for 5 years if things didn't change I would end up finding a boyfriend. I have pleaded over the years, cried, done everything.

In the beauty salone Sue worked with Craigs wife. She left him a few years ago. She really broke his heart. He was so sad for so long. Now Craig has a big road block up with women. He wants to do his own thing.

Last year when I did her taxes Craig came over and we drank a few bears. He had a friend with him. I have since found out that Craigs friend told him that he thought I liked Craig. I didn't realize it but the whole time I talked to other people I couldn't keep my eyes off of him. He is not a hung by any means he just has this personality and we clicked.

This year I did Craigs taxes. We had to go to his house to finish them. Nothing happened that day. The following day one text message led to another. Before I knew it we were both confessing how we both wanted each other that day.

Day one: I went over and we kissed the whole time. Let me tell you this man has a mouth.

Day two: He was not going to take his chances and let me get out of there without making love to me. I have never been made love to like that. It went on for hours and he is in his 40's.

The first week we saw a lot of one another. We are so drawn to one another like magnets. He swore he would never be with a married women, let alone ever fall in love with one.

The second week I saw him twice. He says things would be easier and he could let go if I were not in my situation. He is so warm and loving. He doesn't date and he feels the same as I am overwelmed by the amount of attraction we have for one another. What we have experienced sexually neither of us has ever experienced.

The problem: I would leave right now if he said he wanted to be with me. In a heartbeat. He also started drinking 5 years ago and doesn't think of calling me for a few days or a text. His wife hurt him so much he doesn't want to be hurt. He tells me how much he cares but he is so into being his own person. Will it change with time? I have a stable household although I am so unhappy I don't want to leave for something that could happen. I wasn't looking. He says such sweet tender things. We have the same type of personality. I do not like that he drinks so much but my best friend said it would go away if he had me. she has known him many years.

Will he ever be able to take his guard down with me. I am a very tender person. Nothing like his wife was. I am in love and think of him all the time. He tells me he thinks of what we have all the time but he built that wall.

My husband knows there is something going on. I warned him for years though and I don't think he believed me.

Please help me.

Do you think he will ever let his guard down? Do I have to leave my husband to let the guard down. No, I am not happy here but I live comfortable.

Do I text him much or let him always make the first move. My husband wanted a 1 minute inturlude with me for the past 3 days which never happens. He knows something is going on. I won't sleep with him. Oh we also don't sleep together at night.

I need to know if I should be my sensitive loving self with Craig or start being more carefree like OH WELL. I know he feels the same as I do. He tells me it all the time. I can see it in his eyes. They sparkle when he sees me. He is falling as deep as I am but he doesn't want to admit it. He is afraid of being hurt. I will never hurt him. I want him.

His smell drives me crazy. What he does to my body drives me crazy. Holding his hand makes me melt. His kisses are so deep and tender. I have not had a passionate kiss in over 5 years until Craig.

HELP can someone help and give me insight. I am falling deep..

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

You are imagining things because of your unhappy situation. Also we tend to exaggerate our feelings in all new relationships, I would say fuck him as much as you like, but moving in with him is a huge gamble, why don't you work on your current relationship?

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by Anonymous

Ditto. I don't think Craig is more than just sex. Besides, you should learn from him and not hop from relationship to relationship. Fix the one you're in. Or leave. But if you leave, don't leave just to jump into another relationship. Just my advice :-)

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