I think that you are a man
Some things are much better left alone.
Sorry for you, but I can guarantee that I am 100% woman and the fantasy I confessed was very true. I've reinacted it a thousand times in my mind. And the statement I made about "what is wrong with this picture" purely rhetorical. So, if you have any thing constructive to contribute, please let me know, k?
I know nothing was ever going to happen even remotely close to my fantasy, and I dont even see him anymore for counseling. The thought of it just keeps in my head and I cant seem to forget....
I've heard that this happens alot with therapists and their patients. I am a guy and I have a female therapist and while I haven't had real sexual fantasies about her, I have thought about just kissing her once. I think it's because we trust them (and in your case, if the guy is cute, well there is an attraction). We open our hearts and thoughts to them and make ourselves vunerable and they treat us kindly and listen.
You seem to have a handle on it and know that it is just a fantasy, but if it starts overwhelming you, do yourself a favor and find another therapist - maybe a woman.
Good luck
Thank you for taking the time to respond.... :)
I havent seen this therapist for about a year now, and the feelings do disapate in time.....maybe I am hanging on to an Image until I find another person to share that intimacy with. It has stuck in my mind for a while, I admit. With being in a situation that expects you to bare your soul, it ends up being a fine line between intimate talk and intimacy. I guess I am just in a rut, its difficult and frustrating. Thank you for responding in such a mature way, I needed to get this out.
Fuck all that touchy, feely bullshit. You want a stiff cock in your ass and pussy. You're just a little horny. Go on down to your local bar one night and stay until closing. You're bound to find some guy who's willing to stick it to you. You can't be that hideous looking, can you?
If I wanted to just go out and fuck some skaggly disease ridden barfly after gettin wasted at a bar, I guess I would go for you, idiot. I have my share of excitement if I want it, but my point was that I had a fantasy about a forbidden person in my life.
Thanx for the couple of people who answered in a constructive realistic way..... :)