My husband and I have been together since I was 19. We married at 21, he is 4 years older than me. We have a great sex life, I had only sucked one other guy then finished him with my hand before I had sex with my now husband. I've let him do what he wants and by the end of a year we had an active sex life of BJ's, oral on me, anal, vaginal and masturbation sex. It took him a year but he now has sex in my peehole. It hurt at first, but actually it feels very very good. I can have orgasms this way very easily. It took a long time, and a little pain but it's been worth it and as he says, I'm now a 4 hole girl and he uses them all a lot.