My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for over a year now. We've done many exams and the most probable cause is that his sperm count is very low. We've tried vitamins, positions and so on but its not working, artificial methods are very expensive and the insurance doesn't cover it

We had a serious conversation a few days ago where we actually considered the idea of another man being the one who gets me pregnant. I know this is something extremely hard for him to accept but we also know that its one of our lifes dreams to have a kid.

We actually considered several guys like if it was a menu. At one point we just laughed about what we were talking about. The 3 more serious prospects that we came up with were his cousin, his uncle and a friend from his work whom I know.

We originally had 5 names but my husband asked me straight up from those 5 who would you like to fuck better. I answered sincerely and we came up with those 3 final names

I would never say this to my husband but even though I understand the practical reasons why we are doing this, I admit its kind of a turn on to think about having sex with another man with every intention of getting pregnant.

We agreed that to be certain the sex encounters would have to be between 3 to 5 times and we even agreed that he would have to be very turned on so he would make a large deposit

This is all very weird and I even admit we are not even sure if at the end we would go through with it, but we did have that conversation and as I said I did think about it and it was kind of a turn on