I am 37 and recently married. The man I married is a prostate cancer survivor and is now in generally very good health. He is a family law attorney with a very good practice. I met him in that capacity. My situation was a common law or palimony situation, my LT girlfriend and partner wanted 'the money'. He defended me successfully, we finalized a separation with a settlement she took and 'ran'.

I didn't switch sides, it is more of a convenience thing. He needs me, and I need him. He can't 'have' sex, not really and I am not looking for sex with him. If I have a fling with a young woman, that's my business. He just wants a formal wife for his reasons. For me I need his cover after my ugly separation. I can certainly be the wife in this relationship, I don't have a problem with that.

If one day he can have sex, with all the feelings and pleasures I will be the first to help. One slip, and he can't feel anything, that part is dead to him. It is going to be a long case, but nothing can make up for being dead down there.