When I started dating my now husband 8 years ago, he had just come out of a live-in relationship. It was with another man, an older very feminine man. My husband lived in this gay relationship for 2 years. He had been with women and some other men as well. He was very upfront about it, and before we started having sex he produced a test report, so no diseases. I did the same for him, as I'd had a few slutty years before. While we were starting to date and not yet exclusive but having sex, he did go out with two men and another woman, but I was the one that he wanted to be with. I am writing this because I was found out by my sister and she announced to the whole family and now our neighbors know too. They all think I'm nuts.

I am flat chested, and I'm comfortable with that. I've never been much for shaving or grooming down below, though I have trimmed and shaved for bikini season and for a few boyfriends through the years. I have a straight body, not really pronounced hips or waist, but even now have a perky butt. The thing is when my sister popped over unexpectedly I thought it was my husband on a Friday night coming home. On the weekends I dress up in boys clothes for him. I have short hair on my head, and when he wants even keep my hair grown on my underarms. I do shave my legs though since I wear a lot of minis. I was in boys brief underwear and a singlet tee shirt, no makeup at all. I confessed that I do this for him and that for the weekends we usually end up having anal sex with me lying on my stomach for him.

She was astounded and appalled. Through the years I've gotten to enjoy the roleplay and even enjoy anal now, sometimes I can orgasm without doing it myself while he's pumping away at me. I know this may be sick to some people but I love him, and he loves me and this is what keeps him with me and not anyone else. Every once in a while for a weekend I'm his boyfriend. It works for us.