Been married a few years, and I know some will think this is a slime ball move, but I really enjoy it.

I was at a friend's house, and we were drinking and surfing some porn, and he has a thing for peeping tom stuff. I really like his wife. She's a descent person and she and my wife get along great. I also love my wife and would never think about cheating on her.

Friend and I (drunk) got to talking about the peeping stuff and he pulls up a spy pic of his wife and swears me to secrecy. Yeah, it was a turn on, but it also made me think about my own wife.

Cut to the chase, we both live out in the woods a few miles apart, and there are times our wives work the late shift.

On the times my wife works nights, I let him know, and he cuts off the security lights, cracks the blinds and curtains, and lets me come spy on his wife. And on the nights his wife is going to be gone, I do the same for him.

Our wives don't know, and we shoot pics and video for each other, and its the dirtiest thing I've ever loved. Not just me watching his wife, but him watching mine too and knowing she's oblivious to it.

It never goes beyond us. Its our secret, but it happens once or twice a month.