For all the guys out there:
I have some questions as advice for my (unstable) relationship so if you could reply with the answers I'd appreciate it a lot!
Thanks so much :))
1. What kind of girl would you prefer, a quiet and smart one or a loud (and not-so-bright) one? [Assuming they look the same] 2. How would you deal with liking another girl right (a couple months) after you broke up with your ex?
3. If you and a girl both liked each other, would you want a girl to make the first move or would you do it?
If you don't have time for these, I totally understand.
But if you could answer them, thank you so much!
Love yall

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

No probs.
1 quiet and smart. Mind fucks are as good as physical sex.

2. I would be out looking as soon as the relationship ended. Not for any other reason that I hate being alone. I love being loved.

3. Girls have every right to make the move. Often they are switched on.

Hope this helps. Xx

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

Quiet and smart. I'd wait a few months so not rushing. Girl making the first move is beyond hot.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

1 - smart is sexy. A guy who does't like smart is, himself, not smart. Don't waste your time on him.

2 - I would be a friend. A relationship that is based on sex, is just that, sex with a convenient person. "Boo" used to mean a convenient sex partner while waiting for someone worth while. To a guy, it still does. A friend is someone you enjoy being with, you value them, and they value you. You can fuck anyone, but you cannot find a lot of people that value each other.

3 - it doesn't matter.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

I think there is value in both types of partners, but smarts trumps many other attributes or me. After the sex and heat of passion wanes, it's nice to have the intimacy and connection of someone who is smart; someone I can learn from.

As a man, I think it's harder to jump into a new relationship as soon as the last one is over for a couple reasons. Women can always find sex for company to avoid lonliness in the short term, but that is harder for men to attain (unless you are gay or bi), then there is always sex as an option).

I'd also probably benefit from some space and time after a breakup to reflect on what my needs are, what unhealthy patterns I may keep repeating, and how I can grow from the mistakes and reassess a better love connection next time.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

Oh my, I should not get involved. I really don't care which type she is, cute, beautiful or in between. SHE is FEMALE and that's all that counts. I normally began just by some soft hugging, playing around to learn what turns her on. I finally ask her if she ever French Kisses. She will beat around the bush, afraid of giving away her secrets on sex. I just look her in the eyes and say, "I mean my own way of French Kissing." She will normally ask, "What is your way." I tell he frankly. "My method of French is, I place my lips on your lips and press in a little to start. Soon I can feel your lips getting warm and moist. I then began applying more pressure, enough to cause you to show response. At this point I force your lips apart and then slide my tongue between your lips and begin moving my tongue around, all around, in and out, until I can hear you moaning and groaning with fast and hard breathing. With this I know you are enjoying it and you continue your moaning and hard breathing and I know you are really enjoying everything I do. Now, when you start to cool down with your hard breathing and I can feel some kinda wet liquid against my tongue I immediately remove my lips from yours and then I move up to your belly button." That normally turns them on and they are ready for anything.

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