Need an arrangement...

I'm a 62yo married, fat, well-endowed man. I'm well-educated, nice, open-minded, safe, sane and horny.

Not sure if this goes under wishes and dreams or anything for money but as I get older and my days of getting it up without Viagra are coming around any day now, I think about how one goes about advertising, vetting and hiring someone to provide "special" services to men my age.

I'm pansexual - that is to say, I like men, women and non-binary people. I'm DDF, don't do drugs, smoke or drink.

My ideal "engagement" would be a mature/intelligent female between the ages of 25-50 who is clean, pleasant, enjoys sex, actually likes people (particularly, men) and would enjoy a periodic get-together.

I'm also into men but they seem plentiful enough that I don't think I need much help in that area.

Ideally, my special friend would be attractie, any body type short of obese, probably caucasian but open to Asian and mixed race; enjoy giving a "Girl friend experience" and taking her time. I enjoy foreplay, kisses, touching, building up, talking during sex, laughing, smiling, seizing the moment and appreciating the joys of sharing a special energy with someone.

Especially ideally, though not necessary, would be to locate an ordinary person - ordinary in the sense that they are "real and authentic" as opposed to a jaded, superficial and distant professional. A real person who loves sex and has a high level of emotional intelligence, compassion, is affirming of older heavy set men, and clearly enjoys what she does.

I have absolutely no idea how to locate someone to fill this role safely, but would appreciate feedback and guidance.

I'm in the DC area.

Thank you...