How is your asshole? Does it smell of pure cheese ? Or is it a lovely little asshole that is ripe for a cum load.
I have been in same situation except she came to me
Quit while you're ahead.
Dont wreck your marriage to a good man, they are hard to find. End this before it messes things up. It will be difficult at first, but take your sexual energy out on your husband. If this man was truly a good friend to your husband, he wouldnt be fucking you.
Tell him you are off birth control. He would have to support a kid. He would run.
You have what both want.
And you want both.
Tell your husband you want a 3-some with his friend.
Then work it into a regular thing.
I did with my last wife and best friend.
It was great and she hadda blast feeling spoiled from double the attention.
She sometimes spent entire weekends naked in the house, fucking one or both of us.
Worth talking about anyway.
Your other options aren't very good, are they?