It's not that I can't be horny, it's that I struggle entering that mode. When I'm horny, I'm horny as fuck. I'll let it take control of me. However, I've been finding myself going weeks without even realizing my lack of sexual arousal. Sometimes when I become aware, I feel the urge to play with myself or even seek sexual adventures, but it's as if my body just isn't in the mood. I find this embarrassing as a friend of mine I used to fool around with as reentered my life, and I just can't keep up. How does a decade do this to me? I used to be all over this person, but even when trying to get into that mode, I just feel meh. They're understanding, so they're willing to work with me and we'll get the job done. Still, it's embarrassing as hell.