I am out in the world, out of college and making my own way. I have a real job, aka a job that pays a salary, and I moved to the big city away from the small town where I grew up. I have never had sex in a bed alone with guy. I like having guy sex.

From the time I left home to go to college I have shared a room with another girl, first in a dorm and later when we moved off campus. She is living with me. She and I don't have sex but if a guy wants to have sex he has to let us both be there. I like her coaching me and coaching him. It's my thing, but I want her to guide his penis, that means hold his penis and guide his penis into my vagina, regardless of my position. It's a thing.

She also avoids sex unless I am there. This is our thing, we like it and if a guy is going to have sex with us then he should have enough self awareness to have sex in front of another person, aka me for her or her for me.

We also don't have threesomes, when one of us is having sex the other one does not get naked or participate, except to coach and make sure he is doing it right. It's our thing. But apparently guys are intimidated at the idea, we don't get many takers, aka we usually sleep in our bed without a guy there.