I serve tables at a women's lunch place, well mostly women as very few men come here. It is a nice place and attracts mostly well to do professional women from the near downtown area. But it also attracts a lot of the stay at home well to do moms, who may or not bring their babies here as well. It is a mixed crowd and among them is a woman, late twenties, who comes every two weeks with her women friends for lunch and a visit. They are all obviously not working women and drive up in nice cars to the valet. I confess dearly that I have a very deep crush on one particular woman who is always very nice to me and doesn't mind if I touch her shoulder or her hand or lean over to kiss her cheek when I see her. More than once while I am taking her order she takes my hand in hers and talks to me personally to take my order. She left me her phone number and we exchanged calls and went out on a couple of dates.

The other day she is at her normal table with her friends a man comes in and walks up to her and they walk off to the counter to talk and I overhear everything. She asks him for his credit card because the dress she ordered is in and she wants to pick it up for that night. He tells her that he is tired of her spending, she gets her allowance on time every month and she has to learn to manage her money. She pouts at him and he gives her the credit card, he gets a small kiss and he tells her that she knows he is always going to take care of her. I stood there and listened to the whole exchange and when he was gone she looked at me and showed me the credit card and mouthed to me that he loves her and shrugged her shoulders.

She calls me to go out, I say no so she comes to my apartment. She wants to know what happened. I don't know what to tell her and she says to never mind what happened at the restaurant it is his fault because he keeps her on a short leash. We don't go out but we go to bed instead. Second time, because we went to bed once before. She wants me to feel how much she likes me and we roll around for long time and then we fix a sandwich and eat in. She spends the night with me and tells me she wants me to be her girlfriend and that the reason she goes to the restaurant is to see me, otherwise there are lots of other places. I ask her to spell it out to me, what is her relationship with that man.

He is her father, no she says he is really her father, like the man who had sex with her mother. I don't have anything to worry about, he knows that she only dates girls and he doesn't mind. Well after several dates I found out the truth, he is not her father in the real sense he is her ex boss when she was an admin at his law firm and he takes care of her and she has to take care of him. He doesn't mind if she dates girls because she doesn't have permission to date guys. Yes she likes me, but I really can't have a relationship with her and I am very torn up about it. So that is where I come in or came in. I wish I didn't like her so much.