Ladies, I have a couple of questions for you. This is not "clinical" or "biology", but feelings and description.

I see the look on my wife's face when she cums, and the way her body reacts, but I'm asking you, as a woman, to describe the sensations you feel when you cum. What does the build up feel like, and what do you experience when that orgasm washes through you?

I'd also ask you to use the terms that you prefer during sex, cock/hardness/meat... pussy/kitty/twat.

Guys can never know what you experience on your end, so I'd like to know what women actually feel during sex.

And what do you absolutely crave during sex that guys rarely do? I know it is different for every woman, but my wife is one of those women who turns red and says "I don't know" when I ask her what she really wants during sex. When she seems really into it, I don't know if I should pull her hair, press against her back, or reach around and squeeze her breasts.

Do women like having their breasts squeezed during?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

It's rather naive to ask random strangers what they feel or prefer or what terms they want to hear. The most important thing is to have open and honest communication with your partner to learn what they prefer and enjoy. Women can vary dramatically from one another. Some women, for example, enjoy having their breasts and nipples stimulated. Some don't. Some prefer mild pain (mild biting). Some find that a huge turn off. And on and on it goes.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

It's far from naive. Of course women vary from one to the next, but as the responses emerge, you start to recognize common traits.

Open, honest conversation does not stop shyness when the questions become too personal. That's why I'm asking in an anonymous format, with the knowledge that not only may I recognize a woman like my wife, but expand the palate of her pleasure with things that haven't been considered.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

Just wait for the right moment, usually after thungs have gotten started and ask her. Watch how her body responds when you do something, she will make it obvious if she likes it.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

I suspect that you are a gross 35 stone virgin .
For fuck sake get out and get a fuck for real instead of posting this bullshit.
Stop jerking off to pictures of mens assholes and get out more.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

Ignore #4. It's the same troll that posts shit to responses on every thread here.

Dude, you asked some great questions here.
Ladies, things work best when you tell us EXACTLY what you like.
SHOW us if need be.

It saves time and wasted effort and frustration.
And we can get down to the real good stuff which is :
EXPLORING YOUR FANTASIES.

That is what every girl wants her guy to want to do.
Help her explore her fantasies, because what women fantasize about makes the world turn.
Sometimes having another woman you trust in the mix too will help you come out of yourself and is a good way to start.
Every guy should be open to that and should encourage that alone for his wife or GF if she thinks it is necessary. And if so, girls, don't abuse that either.

Bottom line is when guys stop trying to control, direct, and dominate, instead helping women feel comfortably uninhibited often enough to understand what their bodies tell them they want, then women can create for all involved the situations they like best, they fantasize about, or they fear and want to overcome. By then, their guys won't need to guess, ask, or wonder. They'll know.

I don't even know if I explained that right.
But I've seen women do that and it is what sex is supposed to be about.
Nothing like it. Nothing else comes close.
But you have to honest and open and trust.
If you're only out for your pleasure, go away.

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