I am 35 and I have three children and I am a stay at home mom. I would really like to have a sister be part of my life. Let me go back to my family and how we grew up. My father married my mother the week before he graduated with his PhD and went off to work for the Defense Industry (I can't say which company because that is against the rules). My mother was a sophomore student and he basically put her on a shelf for later use. My mother lived at the time with her best friend in college and my father would when he got time go off to college and get some use of my mother and return to work. But on one of those occasions he also got some use of my mother's roommate. And according to legend he just didn't use her, her USED her.

Anyways as they graduated from college he took them to live with him and they set up a home and along came us, a boy and a girl born two weeks apart, and later a boy and later another girl. My mother and her roommate, my other mother never stopped being roommates. They are sisters in life. So that is what I am talking about. I am lonely, not because I am a stay at home mom, but because I want a sister. My husband is a professor at the university where I went to school and he has his pants on too tight. I want him to find me a sister and bring her home to live with us. I have been asking him for a sister for a long time, before my first one was born.

He has his traditions and I have my traditions, and the way I see it we celebrate the High Holidays and Christmas, so he should consider my needs. I am not used to being alone and sure I have a real sister who is nine years younger than me but I am not so sure that is the best idea. If that is what it is to be I will live with it, but I would like a sister who is more like me, who has my sense of humor and likes the things I like. My little sister and I don't really see things the same way and there is this older sister younger sister dynamic as well.