I received a call at work one day to find out my wife had been arrested. Public nudity and resisting arrest. My wife and her lover were caught having sex near a school and her lover tried to resist arrest and both were charged and taken to jail. I was totally taken by surprise bur got her out of jail. I had no idea she was cheating on me. She showed great remorse and really hoped for forgiveness. Her lover was a boyfriend she had in high school. They started sex when she was 16. They broke up after he dumped her for other girls. We met in college and got married after we both graduated. I asked for what the situation with him existed if she wanted forgiveness. She promised only love for me and our family. She admitted to having sex with him even before we married. She has sex with only us because we both knew her body. She hated to admit but has sex with him weekly. She promised it would end because the excitement had gone out of it. I no doubt fathered our children because they look like me. She said he wore condom when we started our family. I'm still trying to work through this. She has been good to me and as I stated earlier I had no idea she was cheating. After a month she still says she has been true to me. I don't want her cheating and I don't want to slit up. It will take time for me to get a grasp on this event.