I'm a bi trans man, possibly just gay but figuring it out lol. I have a few dildos I use on myself and I use for topping if and when I top. Recently I've discovered the wonders of anal. I've fucked myself in the ass a lot since and it's truly amazing. Way more intense than PIV sex for me. Add a vibrator to my clit.... crazy. Now I really want to but a hitachi wand and a dom to torture me with it while fucking my ass. I'm interested in being tied up and being completely at his mercy. That would be in the future though lol.