You aren't being a prude. Usually the daughter or father will feel like once the signs of puberty arrive, it is time for showering together to end. Unless something sexual has been going on between them. If that were the case, why would he have you move in?
Just ask him about it. If you let too much time pass before you do, it might make it even more uncomfortable.
My daughter is only 5 and already I wouldn't be naked with her. I never want to say these things are unhealthy because there is way too much shame and guilt around sexuality already but I feel he is not doing right by his daughter.
Just walk in on them and go down on her and see what happens
You are right on. It needs to stop. If not you should move out. Otherwise you are complicit in whatever wrongs are occurring under that roof.
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I am a dad and a 14 year old daughter should not be showering with her dad, you mentioned there isn't much room in the shower, I have showered with my girlfriend in a cubicle for one it can be done but its a bit cramped and you get body contact which is very nice with my girlfriend, you said his cock was swollen that is due contact, I don't know if something is going on or not but if he has a semi erection when he comes out of the shower something inappropriate could have already happened, are you ok with it or not
He's fucking her.
Not rocket science.
I am a girl and I use to bath and shower with my dad up to the age of 23, till my mum put a stop to it, she opened the bathroom door suddenly and caught me sucking my dads cock.
I didn't see anything wrong he did me favours as I did him favours.
That is exactly what me and my dad have been doing for years now. Between me and dad there was nothing sexual happening until I was adult. Since puberty I wasn't showering with him but since adult we began going to sauna together again and things have since gotten sexual. I haven't see anything wrong with what we do either. It is wrong if thing like this involves children, but I'm adult and know what I'm doing. Is it really that wrong if I kneel before him and please him with my mouth? We are only making each other feeling good.
There is nothing wrong with i****t relationships if both are consenting adults. I know its morally wrong, but you know the saying forbidden fruit tastes nice, the bigger the sin the bigger the thrill, members if our family are at it, nothing is said its just accepted as normal.
Some girls like exposing themselves to there dad but with me its different I like being naked in front of my mother, since she told me she had a lesbian relationship in her teens unknown to my dad, this really turned me on and still does, I want the unthinkable relationship, why did my mum tell me, I know dad and daughter are most common then mum son, how common is a mother and daughter lesbians, nobody will openly and honestly talk about which I can understand because its in the closet, I know its difficult would anybody like to talk to me,
I will call myself Jan45
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If you're trying to create some message or point here, you've done a poor job. Furthermore, you or any of the respondents shouldn't try to portray yourselves as anything but progressives either. You liberals created all this permissive behavior, yet when another posture arises that you failed to approve or process, you complain as if you legitimately have standards. Bottom line is don't rebel against i****tual behavior, which by the way became mainstream when you were asleep over twenty years ago.
I get hard too frequently around my stepdaughter but it is not because I want to. Sometimes we get close enough that she rubs against it. I get too excited and work on our relations knowing she knows what I know. It's Adam and Eve nature stuff taking control. Age is not a factor. Only we try to hide mom from what is developing.