I am 26, he is 30 and we are seriously considering adding a new wife to our home. We interviewed three women all older than me. I want a younger woman, I am being petty but I want a woman my age to share the family burden, having kids. My husband doesn't think it is critical that a new wife have kids with him but I do. It is what we would have in common, plus I just get excited about sharing that with me. I have a friend at work, she is 24 and grew up with four sisters. She is the woman I think about when we talk about finding a woman to share my life with. I know I am asking a lot but I can't warm up to any of the women we have interviewed. I have literally been dreaming about her living with us. If only? I don't know how to talk with her about it.