So this is my story: I am a 28 year old career woman single and independent that happened to fall in love, or at least I think I am with a 36 year old man, collegue of mine from work ,divorced and having a 5 year old daughter.
I get along with him, he is super nice, he is a really decent good looking guy, he is funny and smart, he makes my day happier having him around me. We only have a professional relationship but I wish there it would be more. I only know him for a month and I already like him very much.Ok, this is the good part.
The bad part is that he is kinda of a flirt, he likes being in women company maybe too much. I don't know exactly why he got divorced if he cheated on her or what he did exactly but I think that he doesn't want to comitt anymore.Sometimes I just think that he likes to play with women minds, he likes to tease me sometimes but doesn't want anything serious.
I wish I could make him see that I am there for him, I am available I wish that he would see me as a woman as a future girlfriend, etc.
From what I have heard he is single for 2 years he hasn't been in a relationship since then, and that he was really devastated after he got divorced.
I wanna be that woman that will change his mind and make him want to start a new life next to a new woman. Obviously I want that woman to be me but I don't know to act desperate or freak him out or anything he doesn't know what I feel for him.