This isn't quite a confession but given some of the silly things I've seen written on here I think I can get away with this. Actually I was hoping to get a little female advice. I was married for over 30 years, divorced about two years ago and this is regarding my sister-in-law who Ive recently began having sexual thoughts about. She's always been an extremely attractive woman, super fun and very charismatic but she was one of those women who used it like a weapon and over the years I've watched her very cold heartedly leave a trail of broken hearts in her wake. She seemed Invincible for a very long time then as she got older I watched, sometimes with Glee as her invincibility began to wane and she began to get a taste of her own medicine. I remember the first time her princess Act failed and the guy she was with basically said, who the fuck are you talkin to and then just stopped taking her calls, she was gobsmacked, she couldn't believe it and we were all like tee hee hee ... including her sister. Now in her mid-fifties she's still a very attractive woman but now being just a mere mortal, she exhibits genuine vulnerability and I got to say this is super sexy to me and I've recently been thinking about hitting her up and just coming out and saying straight Up, look I want your body... not quite in those words but you get the idea. I'm talking about a strictly FWB situation. We flirted a bit over the years ( mostly me) but she has given me some nice compliments in these latter years and very recently I saw her, of course with a handsome man in tow and she said I think of you all the time. I'm not dumb enough to read this as, I think all the time about fucking you, but it's something. I am also smart enough to know that, despite the many stories that you read on this site that that being that Direct usually isn't a good idea. I don't have the time nor the proximity to her do the mating dance so it's got to be this way. She's not the type to be appalled by it and I think if the idea appealed to her she would do it without compunction. Also I do love her as family, not just some woman I will never see again. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks