While I was in college I did things with my roommate, I sucked him one night when we weren't exactly drunk but pretty far along. It was a dare thing, I was too bummed and he hung his dick over my face and told me to suck your Daddy sort of thing and well that was all there was to it, I sucked him. So what? So I sucked him, that doesn't make me a queer or anything like that.

Except now I am 28 years old and I met a guy at the bar where we hang out and he started to flirt with me, touching my hand and my leg and when I got up to go to the bathroom he followed me and he hit my ass with his hand. The bathroom at this bar is a one holer but he got in with me and said he wanted to make sure he had things right. He pressed me against the wall and kissed me. I felt things and he grabbed my package and when he stopped kissing me he kept holding my package and he asked if I liked that and before I answered he said he had pegged it and kissed me again. I ended up sucking him in the bathroom. He was hard not like my roommate that time in college and I didn't want to quit until he got his load off. We kissed again before going back out into the bar.

He was leaving and asked if I was going with him or not. I turned him down but not before he kissed me in public. I don't know if anyone I know saw that but it was pretty obvious.

One time thing? Or something else. I have never been phobic or anything like that but I was never involved either.