Once upon a time I was single and focused on school. This day or night really I was taken by a fellow student and I woke up with him. I didn't cry in front of him, but I did breakdown after he left the house I was in. A girl came into the room to find out what was wrong and she sat with me until I was able to compose myself. I found my purse, she helped me get my stuff and she walked back to campus with me. After making sure I was back in my dorm she gave a hug and told me to call her if I wanted to talk.

Right before the end of the semester she looked me up. We went for coffee and a doughnut. She became my best friend and we are friends today. We were in our mid twenties nursing new babies and she suggested we swap. Giving her my baby to nurse was extremely emotional, and letting her baby nurse from me was equally emotional. It was a one time thing but the feelings of closeness never went away.

Her daughter is now married to my son. I believe that day when we cross nursed them their souls came together.