do you live with him?
does he pay for your house?
do you see other men?
Believe him--you are his Boo, just a lesser chick to fuck when his wife is not doing him--he is never going to promote you to anything else in his life.
We are all not meant for the same path. Sometimes being the other woman with his other family is what you are meant to be. I see it as a full time job with part time pay. I once asked him what if I saw another man? Just what if? Never can happen, believe me. He has two wives as I see it, one formal and one informal, two families, two lives, but I am destined to have one man, one life, one family. That is my destiny in life.
This gal here [#3 the poster] is admirable for her comprehension of our roles as men & women. She exhibits common sense and should be lecturing groups of women regarding the paths of life that nature intended for them to pursue. i.e. many, many women lack the skills that a career demands and are meant for the procurement that she is content to and meant to adhere to.
I'm certain of this due to my & many other married men's 'second ladies'. Like her they understand their fate as women. They simply know their natural purpose with regard to serving a man and have found that workable procurement to be very comfortable; even if they are the proverbial second fiddle. Being men, we have many ways of keeping them happy. There are many perks to being as she puts it, a 'second wife'.
