Straight Female / 49
My husband cheated on me three weeks after we got married. I can't list the number of women he has slept with. How does a man convince these women to sleep with him? I am talking about professional coworkers, friends of mine, two neighbors, my cousin, not to mention women he meets on planes, hotels, conferences.
I have a college era friend, she is divorced. She came to a dinner I was hosting when she came in the house he said hello to her kissed her on the mouth, held her tightly in his arms, she was flush when he released her. He paid attention to her all night, hugged her and kissed her, she was putty in his arms, in my kitchen with me standing there. He has this effect on women, girls, teens, I've seen a fifteen year old niece stare into his eyes and let herself be kissed, sit in the easy chair with him, hug him and lost in his eyes.
I gave up a long time ago, women just melt and give in to him. At a concert he was talking to a woman he met in line and he asked her if they were real, she held her breasts up and asked him to feel, in the lobby of the theater. I was awakened by him for sex, asking me to help him seduce a new young coworker. I won't help him and three weeks later he brought her to our house and she had sex with him. When I came home she was still there and he showed her off to me, such a pretty young woman with a fifty year old man.
I can't change him and don't try. I took the young woman into the kitchen with me and talked to her about her home life and family. She stayed for dinner and I drove her home after dinner. No shame, no guilt, just overwhelmed by him. I have seen it so often, felt it since I met him, I know the feeling so I mothered her little and reminded her she was sleeping with a married man older than her father. Sheepishness yes, but shame no. She longs to be with him, she is going to be around for a long time, he wanted me to meet her and accept het so I patted her hand and waited until she walked into her apartment and drove back home and told him not to hurt her. This girl is solid gold.
I have a college era friend, she is divorced. She came to a dinner I was hosting when she came in the house he said hello to her kissed her on the mouth, held her tightly in his arms, she was flush when he released her. He paid attention to her all night, hugged her and kissed her, she was putty in his arms, in my kitchen with me standing there. He has this effect on women, girls, teens, I've seen a fifteen year old niece stare into his eyes and let herself be kissed, sit in the easy chair with him, hug him and lost in his eyes.
I gave up a long time ago, women just melt and give in to him. At a concert he was talking to a woman he met in line and he asked her if they were real, she held her breasts up and asked him to feel, in the lobby of the theater. I was awakened by him for sex, asking me to help him seduce a new young coworker. I won't help him and three weeks later he brought her to our house and she had sex with him. When I came home she was still there and he showed her off to me, such a pretty young woman with a fifty year old man.
I can't change him and don't try. I took the young woman into the kitchen with me and talked to her about her home life and family. She stayed for dinner and I drove her home after dinner. No shame, no guilt, just overwhelmed by him. I have seen it so often, felt it since I met him, I know the feeling so I mothered her little and reminded her she was sleeping with a married man older than her father. Sheepishness yes, but shame no. She longs to be with him, she is going to be around for a long time, he wanted me to meet her and accept het so I patted her hand and waited until she walked into her apartment and drove back home and told him not to hurt her. This girl is solid gold.
