From 19 through 27, basically all of college, grad school and beyond I lived in a three-way house, man and his sister and me. He had sex with both of us and she and I had sex now and then, sort of follow up to earlier sex with him. At first it was freaky watching him with his sister, but being with her she was more than OK with it. Today we are formalized, he and I are married, we have a young son. My sister in law has moved on, living in her own place to let us have our place.

Before her I had never been with another woman, she introduced me to my husband. I miss being close with her. That hurts, I miss her, I love her, but we had to choose so we agreed on being more conventional and I married him. But I love her, I miss her and I want to live with her, I can still be married but the wrong two people are living together.

That's all. First it was me and her. We came first. Then he got in the middle and now I am married to him.