Bi-Sexual Male / 31
My wife (let's call her Ann here) and I are very sexually open people. I am a 31 year old white bi-sexual man, and she is a 27 year old bisexual chinese woman. We have been married for the past four years. Most people wouldn't know it from looking at us or talking with us that we have a very open marriage. Both of us are Christian (we believe, contrary to others, that sex is something to be experienced often and shared) and we rarely share our secret life with others.
We dated for a year before getting married (we met online like a lot of people in the SF Bay Area are doing these days). Ann confessed to me early into our relationship that she was bi-sexual and had secretly dated other women in the past as well as a few men. Although I never had had sex or dated men before, I told her that I too, was bi-sexual, but had never told anyone besides her. Within a month of dating we had our first threesome with one of her roommates.
While dating we had a few threesomes and I even experienced my first gay sex with a close guy-friend of hers.
We laid out our ground rules early and as long as we were honest with each other, we could have sex with other people as often as we liked.
On our honeymoon in Taipei we shared a few nights with her maid of honor who was originally from there. During our one year anniversary we went to our first orgy/sex party while in Florida. Although the location has been different each year we have made it a tradition to go to a sex party on our anniversary.
When Ann became pregnant last year sex became a bit more difficult for us. Other people have been able to have sex while pregnant, but it was challenging for us. Three months before she was due with our daughter, we had a doula visit to prepare for labor.
Our doula (let's call her Rachel) was a short vietnamese volunteer doula. This was her first time being a doula. We asked her about our struggle with being intimate and after some persuassion, convinced her to watch us have sex to see if she could help. She said that due to Ann's increasing back pain from the pregnancy is what could be the issue. She looked flustered and we asked her if she was okay. Rachel shyly said that she was turned on from watching us fuck and that she found me very attractive.
Ann had me leave the room and talked to Rachel privately. Then Ann asked me back in and Rachel was completely naked on the bed. Ann said that she and Rachel talked and agreed that I should fuck Rachel. My wife wanted me to have someone to keep having sex with since we couldn't. So, Rachel and I fucked while my wife watched that night. I remember looking over to Ann multiple times while fucking Rachel to check if she was okay. Each time Ann just smiled and nodded at me and encouraged me to continue. I've learned through all of our shared sexual experiences that what turns both of us on most is watching each other fuck someone else.
Rachel and I had sex several times a week for the next few months leading to my daughter's birth. Besides my wife, I've never had sex with anyone as much as I had with Rachel. We became very close and I had started taking her on dates.
After my daughter was born, I did not have sex for quite some time. Ann's parents lived in San Jose, but came to live with us in Hayward (where we lived at the time) for a month as it was a Chinese tradition. Living with in-lawsn for even a month, is rough.
After her parents left, I continued to have sex with other women and couples I knew. Ann was recovering from the labor and wasn't ready for sex with me or others yet.
When our daughter turned 6 months, Rachel came to visit for a week. I had sex with her for a few nights, but one night my wife came in to our living room while I was fucking Rachel.
She had just put our daughter to sleep and had the monitor with her so she could watch our baby. My wife said she wanted to join us and was tired of letting me have Rachel all to myself. We started fucking.
I was fucking Rachel in the ass (something we had only started doing that week and she was growing to enjoy) while she was eating out my wife's pussy when our apartment door opened. Ann was orgasming at that exact moment saying "oh, fuck! Oh, fuck! OH FUCK!" when her mom came in. We had forgot to tell her mom that we didn't need her to come by that day (she had been coming by once a week to help Ann take care of our daughter when I was away at work. Also, her mom had keys to our place). She stood shocked. Quickly I pulled out of Rachel but because I was about to orgasm right before her mom came in I started cumming and shot cum over Rachel's back.
We asked Rachel to go check on our daughter while we talked to her mom. Neither of us dressed as we were in shock to be caught by her mom. I was still dripping cum from my erect penis as we sat on the couch across from her mom. After some awkward silence her mom asked how long Ann and I had been having sex with Rachel. We told her about everything and she was suprisingly calm. After explaining ourselves her mom folded her hands in her lap and said that she understood. She explained that she used to have sex with an older man and his wife when she was in her early 20s when she lived in China, but had never told anyone due to how taboo it was. When she came to America she has been having a secret affair with another Chinese woman from her church for the past 15 years. Her husband didn't know. She asked us if we were upset or judged her for this. We both said we understood. Her mom said that she neither judged us for our sexual lifestyle and would keep our secret if we kept hers.
Her mom said she would watch our daughter so that we could continue having sex with other people whenever we wanted to. That night Ann, Rachel, and I continued to have sex while Ann's mom watched our daughter. That was probably the best sex I've ever had.
Since then my mother-in-law got divorced from her husband and moved in with her lover, but tells people she moved in with her friend. Ann's dad met someone back in China and moved back there. Ann's mom continues to come over to let us go out or have other people over to fuck while she watches our daughter. We decided to make Rcahel part of our relationship officially. She has moved in with us and although cannot be married to us legally, we gave her a ring to symbolize our secret polyamourous relationship. The three of us have an open relationship and fuck others together or separately. I never thought I could have or maintain a threesome relationship or open marriage life while being a parent, nor did I ever conceive that my Chinese mother-in-law would be okay and supporting of our lifestyle. But that is our secret life and it is a good one!
We dated for a year before getting married (we met online like a lot of people in the SF Bay Area are doing these days). Ann confessed to me early into our relationship that she was bi-sexual and had secretly dated other women in the past as well as a few men. Although I never had had sex or dated men before, I told her that I too, was bi-sexual, but had never told anyone besides her. Within a month of dating we had our first threesome with one of her roommates.
While dating we had a few threesomes and I even experienced my first gay sex with a close guy-friend of hers.
We laid out our ground rules early and as long as we were honest with each other, we could have sex with other people as often as we liked.
On our honeymoon in Taipei we shared a few nights with her maid of honor who was originally from there. During our one year anniversary we went to our first orgy/sex party while in Florida. Although the location has been different each year we have made it a tradition to go to a sex party on our anniversary.
When Ann became pregnant last year sex became a bit more difficult for us. Other people have been able to have sex while pregnant, but it was challenging for us. Three months before she was due with our daughter, we had a doula visit to prepare for labor.
Our doula (let's call her Rachel) was a short vietnamese volunteer doula. This was her first time being a doula. We asked her about our struggle with being intimate and after some persuassion, convinced her to watch us have sex to see if she could help. She said that due to Ann's increasing back pain from the pregnancy is what could be the issue. She looked flustered and we asked her if she was okay. Rachel shyly said that she was turned on from watching us fuck and that she found me very attractive.
Ann had me leave the room and talked to Rachel privately. Then Ann asked me back in and Rachel was completely naked on the bed. Ann said that she and Rachel talked and agreed that I should fuck Rachel. My wife wanted me to have someone to keep having sex with since we couldn't. So, Rachel and I fucked while my wife watched that night. I remember looking over to Ann multiple times while fucking Rachel to check if she was okay. Each time Ann just smiled and nodded at me and encouraged me to continue. I've learned through all of our shared sexual experiences that what turns both of us on most is watching each other fuck someone else.
Rachel and I had sex several times a week for the next few months leading to my daughter's birth. Besides my wife, I've never had sex with anyone as much as I had with Rachel. We became very close and I had started taking her on dates.
After my daughter was born, I did not have sex for quite some time. Ann's parents lived in San Jose, but came to live with us in Hayward (where we lived at the time) for a month as it was a Chinese tradition. Living with in-lawsn for even a month, is rough.
After her parents left, I continued to have sex with other women and couples I knew. Ann was recovering from the labor and wasn't ready for sex with me or others yet.
When our daughter turned 6 months, Rachel came to visit for a week. I had sex with her for a few nights, but one night my wife came in to our living room while I was fucking Rachel.
She had just put our daughter to sleep and had the monitor with her so she could watch our baby. My wife said she wanted to join us and was tired of letting me have Rachel all to myself. We started fucking.
I was fucking Rachel in the ass (something we had only started doing that week and she was growing to enjoy) while she was eating out my wife's pussy when our apartment door opened. Ann was orgasming at that exact moment saying "oh, fuck! Oh, fuck! OH FUCK!" when her mom came in. We had forgot to tell her mom that we didn't need her to come by that day (she had been coming by once a week to help Ann take care of our daughter when I was away at work. Also, her mom had keys to our place). She stood shocked. Quickly I pulled out of Rachel but because I was about to orgasm right before her mom came in I started cumming and shot cum over Rachel's back.
We asked Rachel to go check on our daughter while we talked to her mom. Neither of us dressed as we were in shock to be caught by her mom. I was still dripping cum from my erect penis as we sat on the couch across from her mom. After some awkward silence her mom asked how long Ann and I had been having sex with Rachel. We told her about everything and she was suprisingly calm. After explaining ourselves her mom folded her hands in her lap and said that she understood. She explained that she used to have sex with an older man and his wife when she was in her early 20s when she lived in China, but had never told anyone due to how taboo it was. When she came to America she has been having a secret affair with another Chinese woman from her church for the past 15 years. Her husband didn't know. She asked us if we were upset or judged her for this. We both said we understood. Her mom said that she neither judged us for our sexual lifestyle and would keep our secret if we kept hers.
Her mom said she would watch our daughter so that we could continue having sex with other people whenever we wanted to. That night Ann, Rachel, and I continued to have sex while Ann's mom watched our daughter. That was probably the best sex I've ever had.
Since then my mother-in-law got divorced from her husband and moved in with her lover, but tells people she moved in with her friend. Ann's dad met someone back in China and moved back there. Ann's mom continues to come over to let us go out or have other people over to fuck while she watches our daughter. We decided to make Rcahel part of our relationship officially. She has moved in with us and although cannot be married to us legally, we gave her a ring to symbolize our secret polyamourous relationship. The three of us have an open relationship and fuck others together or separately. I never thought I could have or maintain a threesome relationship or open marriage life while being a parent, nor did I ever conceive that my Chinese mother-in-law would be okay and supporting of our lifestyle. But that is our secret life and it is a good one!
