I spent twenty years working both domestically and overseas in various cities with the banking industry. My last posting was Hong Kong and I was with the Regional Internal Audit Section. I am gay, always have been gay and during all these years I have kept my life quiet and in the closet. I developed a very strong attraction to Turks while I was in Istanbul. In particular I had a relationship with this Turk who is hard headed, aggressive and likes being with other men. I met him at a Turkish Bath House, he is a Financier and likes cock on cock. He is probably the one man I really had a relationship with which lasted the three years I was in Istanbul.

In the Far East I travelled to Thailand to find extracurricular activities, while in North Africa I returned to Europe to play around. Other than Turkey I never messed around in country.

I returned to the home office in late 2016 and at our office I met this black ex footballer from Benin and we found that our radars picked up on each other and he introduced me to his group of friends. Among others I met a retired School football coach who likes to be surrounded by young men. I also met a History Professor who talks too much, a Math Teacher, a banker like me, and bingo I met a Lebanese Art Dealer who reminds me of my days in Istanbul.

Is it physical, yes. Is it his temperament, yes. Is it his way around sex, yes. He and I are now together. He likes me to wear an apron, nothing but an apron. I can wear an apron, why not. I wear the apron, he wears the pants, in the end both the apron and the pants have to come off.