I was 23 then, I had a four year old. He was my neighbor across the street. He told me if I ran the house I could live with him rent free. After a couple of months I went to his room and offered to sleep with him, he said no thanks. After a year he asked if he could adopt my daughter. To make it work I had to get her birth father to give up his parental rights and the lawyer told him to marry me. We still sleep in separate rooms, when he 'wants' me he will let me know. My daughter now has a father who is really taken by her, I have a husband who doesn't want me in his bed.