Confession #40803 | Anonymous Confessions

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Straight Male / 30

I love being married to my wife.

Our early marriage was great, but our marriage has only gotten better over the years, which bucks the trend of marriages going downhill. There are times I will have sex with her, then once I am spent, she'll simply lay naked on my bed eagerly waiting until I get hard again, then we'll go another round.

We are addicted to each other.

I remember one night (during our early marriage) we were in the bath and I was rubbing her clit, she was moaning like crazy and kissing me a lot while I rubbed her, evidently my fingers on her clit really got her going.

Her breathy moaning always gets me going to this day, it's one of my key turn ons.

I once asked her just how much she craved me, her response was "you have no idea". She loves everything from a good hard fuck to slow & easy, as long as we are connecting in a deep (no pun intended) way, she's a happy woman, and I'm a happy man.

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Congratulations and all the best.Keep the marriage intact.Too many marriages are getting rocked for fashion or on flimsy excuses.Walk an extra mile to keep her happy and NEVER try to realize any fantasy of extra-marital sex/threesome action /sharing or swapping spouses.They ruin everything . After all we also are part of a larger society and we owe something to the society-- keeping the societal fabric intact.

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#1 Again---Further,take her out every week for lunch or dinner and make it special.Taker her out on tours twice a year.Take her out also if your job involves going outstation.Never leave her alone with anybody.

Basically what you just told everyone, is that you fuck your wife and then you cum. Then she waits you like dog, so you can fuck again. And now you think you are a great lover?

Never heard about licking her clit, etc, to make her happy?

When she meets a guy who can do atleast something in bed, that was it, you can kiss your marriage good bye.

You are happy and I wish you both a very married life till death do one apart.

You need not tell us what you do to pleasure her but #3 has a valid point.

Use your tongue,lips and fingers to give her a couple of orgasms before penetrating her.Ask her if she desires anal as well.She may not let you know unless you asked.Don't presume what you are doing is keeping her happy or when she tells you" she is very happy with you' that is gospel truth.We all tell our partners that.
Ask her what she wants on a particular occasion and give her that.Variety in technique,environment and sequence of stimulation in the whole act is very important.Make love to her in every room,on and under every surface( as possible),at different times,in hotels/motels( after ascertaining that there are no hidden cameras/microphones).Making erotic conversation while in a restaurant or market suggesting visiting the rest room and coming out with her undies in the purse can be a great agent of arousal in her.There is that element of other patrons of the restaurant noticing her jiggling boobs under her blouse,dress.Just don't let her show her privates to others since then you are inviting trouble.

#4 I am sure the OP appreciates your advice, to #3, it's rather foolish to make assumptions about what the OP does or doesn't do with, to, or for his wife, he didn't give much detail (which as #4 pointed out, the OP doesn't have to do.) I'm not attacking necessarily, just making a point.

Another happily married couple here. 30s have also been great for our sex life. Enjoy it and each other!

#5 you have a valid point, but what he did was to tell everyone what he gets from it.

He, not Them.

Can you see the difference. He is selfish.

Take a good look at what he says, not what he writes.

"I love being married."

Our early marriage was great, but our marriage has only gotten better, which bucks the trend of marriages going downhill."

He is talking about himself, not about them, and this next sentence underlines it.

"There are times I will have sex with her, then once I am spent, she'll simply lay naked on my bed eagerly waiting until I get hard again, then we'll go another round."

I, and while I'm spent, tired and bored, and her eagerly waiting (while he could do something about it.) then he craciously offers her another round of fucking so he can cum.

"We are addicted to each other."

This is hard to believe, what he just told us in the previous sentence.

"I remember one night (during our early marriage) we were in the bath and I was rubbing her clit, she was moaning like crazy and kissing me a lot while I rubbed her, evidently my fingers on her clit really got her going."

Evidently MY fingers... This guy is a giant walking dick. Full of himself.

"Her breathy moaning always gets me going to this day, it's one of my key turn ons."

And what is her turn on? He doesn't know. Great lovers know what their spouses like.

"I once asked her just how much she craved me, her response was "you have no idea"."

Exactly. He has no idea, about anything.

"She loves everything from a good hard fuck to slow & easy, as long as we are connecting in a deep way, she's a happy woman, and I'm a happy man.""

But in the end, you could tell everything about how amazing man you are, but you couldn't tell anything about your wife and what she likes, and most importantly, what you are doing to keep her happy.

I have seen guys like that. Who think they are the best lovers in the world and who have said many times how they can keep me happy, but know nothing but how to please themselves and while they are spent, I have to "eagerly" wait.

Interesting that #7 says "Take a good look at what he says, not what he writes." then proceeds to nitpick & over analyze the guys writing. What I got from this post was just that the man enjoys his wife, and she enjoys him.

The man got slammed for supposedly "not knowing" what his wife's turn ons were, but when the guy stated that his fingers really got his wife going, he was talking about at least one of her apparent turn ons right there.

I doubt that's her only one, but maybe that was just the first one to come to mind for him as he was preparing this piece, who really knows?

Further, him saying "my fingers on her clit really got her going" is not him being a selfish dick, either. It might just be his way of stating a fact, like me saying something like "my favorite color is blue".

Anyway, people take posts here way too seriously, relax you all.

Number Seven seems to THINK only the writer gets off when he & his wife have sex, but we don't KNOW that, we should avoid ignorant assumptions. Did the writer tell us what he gets out of it? Yes.

However, he ALSO stated that his wife eagerly waits for him once he's spent so THEY can go again. If she really does what he claims,(I'm willing to concede the possibility) then the conclusion can easily be drawn she must get something out of it as well, EVEN IF the specifics aren't given.

Bad with details? The writer is guilty of that. Being a selfish dick? I hardly think so.

You can assume the writer's a "giant walking dick" if you want, but if he was, she (his wife) probably wouldn't have chosen to be with him in the 1st place.

I want to address one more thing in closing.

Nowhere did the writer try to claim he was "the best lover in the world" he just said he & his wife are a happy man & woman as long as they're connecting with each other in a deep way.

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