I met a guy through friends, he asked me out and we went to an air show. On the way home I invited him in for a sandwich and a beer. We were overheated from the day and a bit smitten by him. I undressed and laid out naked on the bed and offered him desert.

The two things about that afternoon, exposing myself naked to a stranger, it was our first date, was erotic, it felt good in a sexy sort of way. Surrendering myself to him was also a first, I tend to want to set the rules. I never had a chance to set any rules or boundaries.

He wants to be in charge and I am not used to being led around. It's a bit late to give him my list of dating rules.