A few years ago I went to bed with an older man who ended up not being able to perform. No matter what I did he stayed soft. It didn't seem to bother him. He laid me on my back and kissed and sucked my breasts while using his fingers on me. With just his fingers alone he made me cum nine or ten times. I was jelly when he was through. I felt so bad that I couldn't give him the same pleasure but took away the lesson that a man can satisfy a woman in a host of different ways.