The key to any kind of anal sex is to be relaxed and looking forward to it,you need lots of play and fun centered around it,have your guy lick and play with your ass,rimming gets my girl hot to enjoy anal,and I love her ass,just beautiful in size and feel,and she knows I love,love,love her ass so she knows what I am willing to do to enjoy her,also you need a good lube,nothing too thick,we find the best is Astroglide,water based and thin,you want him to be able to feel all of your ass as he slides inside you,and you also want to feel him,like your guy I am also thick cocked,slow and easy is also the best,hope this helps,and you also will find that your orgasms will be explosive.......BIll.
Thank you very much. Yeah I've always heard you can have amazing orgasms with anal sex, so I'll try your suggestions. Thanks again.
Good tips from Bill. Many women also find it helpful to have an assortment of dildos of increasing size which can also serve as a confidence booster. When you are able to take a larger dildo in your ass, you're ready for the real thing too. But go with silicone products which are very safe and can be boiled in water to clean and disinfect. They are pricier but they'll last forever. Tantus is a great company to go to.
You say you want to be DP'd with your husband? If you can't handle his cock in your ass alone, how will you handle two cocks in there at the same time? Or are you going to take one in each hole?
I'm thinking get doped up
#4. That's just my goal. One in the pussy and one in the ass.
I started stretching my ass hole with a set of butt plugs. The set came in 3 different sizes. I couldn't even take the medium size very well. I kept working at it and it really didn't take very long to work up to the large one. I then went and bought a bigger one yet and I now have that mastered.
All of the above are great suggestions. Adding #7s relax and work your way ought to work. Take time (weeks, months). Realize your anus has to grow additional skin, increase flexibility of sphincter. Anal play.