I work as a hospital nurse, much of it is administration and we have assistant nurses who do the dirty work. When I first started here, a young doctor made a big effort for me and I finally started seeing him, He's sharp and a good M.D. who wants to stay in general medicine. He became serious after we dated for a time and had become intimate. He then wanted me to know all about him and confessed that he had fucked members of his family, namely two sisters and an aunt.

I realize I am closed-minded about this but I just cannot deal with it. I'm going to break off the relationship. If he can do that, who knows what else? I'm just too straight and narrow.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

LIKE ALL MEN ALL HE WANTS IF A FUCK TOY. WELLCOME TO THE REAL WORLD. YOU CAN NOW MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE MOST MAKE... LET'S TRY AGAIN, FIND SOMEONE ELSE (DREAM) DOESN'T EXIST. LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF AND NEVER ABSORB YOUR AMBIENT. THIS WAY YOU'LL STAY ALIVE AND BE TOTALLY INDEPENDENT FOR ALL THINGS, INCLUDING SEX. ENOUGH YOU SEE FROM A SLIGHTLY DIFFERENT ANGLE :)

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

THIS COMMENT ABOVE BY THE WAY WAS WRITTEN FROM A 57 YEAR OLD MAN :)

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

I don't have a clue what Commenter #1 was trying to say/
But a male older than him and, NO, every guy is not just looking for a fuck toy.

I don't think you're close-minded.
What he has done is out of the accepted mainstream for sure, but not that uncommon.
But there are a lot of things out of the accepted mainstream in this country because the mainstream is pretty narrow.

Ask yourself this: What are your parameters?
If he had say, once been a porn star, or an escort, or a dancer, or even something as harmless as a nudist (they're actually called 'naturalists')would you have the same reaction.

I'm only basing my opinion on my own experiences and how I learned to understand others who had different experiences.

I can only go by what you put in your comment too
How narrow minded you are is really rather unclear.

Also, you do not say if this happened in the past or if it is ongoing.
Seems like you should at least tell him how you feel before just bailing.

Hope this helps.
I used to work as an orderly for years so I have a healthy respect for what you do.
There's a special heaven somewhere just for nurses. :))

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

You will die alone and miserable. You will not be wanted nor will ever be able to please a man with your vanilla flavored sex. You are the reason men cheat on heir wife's. Same old sex same old looks and same missionary position.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

FINALLY someone with some freakin common sense!! Good call girl.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

I can only tell you this. Years ago (back in 1969) my then boss told me his wife was a social worker. Since he lives in a VERY upmarket area I was surprised and said 'What on earth does she find to do in your area?" He replied "Actually, i****t is WAY more common than anyone thinks - even in my area." I said "What, brothers with sisters, fathers with daughters?" He said, "Oh every possible combination you can think of. Mothers and sons, Fathers and sons, brothers, sisters - you name it." So I'm not saying anything for or against this man - but be aware that it's not unusual. I did know one case in my wife's family of a brother and sister going at it, but they stopped and she's now married.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

It happens, no matter what your views or decision may be. I've been messing around with my hot older sister for years, mostly privately between us, however, was dating a woman years ago who picked up on it (and also found my sister as, in her words, a "smoking hot goddess") and asked me in my car on our way back from a family gathering if I'd ever, or was currently, having sex with her. My luck was her adding "Because I would if I were you".

I told her yes, I had and still did every so often, setting off one of the best, more direct conversations I ever had with her. She didn't mind that I'd had at my hot sister, even asked what she/sister did that she herself could do for me. From that point on, it was like having sex with hot sister all the time.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

The O.P. on this post has obviously disappeared but I believe she was not speaking of society or others but her own attitudes and disposition. We all think differently and I, another woman, would not marry a man whom I knew was fucking the women in his family. I judge no one else and what they do is their business just like what I do is mine.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

#1 is just a heartbroken, copd inflicted bitch. The doc came clean and wanted his partner to join in. It didn't work so well. Everybody move on......

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