My husband is a good man, faithful, hard-working, thoughtful, imaginative, giving, and very loving to a fault! Okay so what's the problem, I hear you asking! As he took pains to warn me before our marriage, he is utterly addicted to bondage of the total-enclosure, sensory-deprivation type, and really NEEDS me to indulge him, for his best mental and physical state. It's not what I would have chosen, although I have to admit, I can screw his brains out, even in the bag he loves nearly as much as me, through a zippered opening. With the aid of a nasal canula, I can sit on his face, and let my clit push through the other zippered opening into his mouth, where his tireless tongue can make me come time after time, until I can take mo more, and roll off him, and zip him back into forced silence! All in all, I am very satisfied, sexually, but I still have a hankering for flesh-to-flesh intercourse and kissing, and all that womanly 'stuff'....When he was very young, in his teens. he was forced into male/male sex, in the rubber bag, even then, and he sometimes fantasizes about having to do oral on a man. Now, an ex boyfriend of mine, before marriage, has contacted me, and expressed an interest in a threesome, since one of his teenage friends was involved in my guy's adventures, and has told him all about them. I feel guilty, since mine is the perfect husband, other than his addiction, and I'm not sure if his "attraction" to earlier male/male contact is more than just an occasional fantasy....I'm really tempted to try this, since my guy is utterly submissive, and wants only to please me, whatever it takes...he would agree to this, just to please me, no matter how reluctant he was...if he IS reluctant! It's really hard to know what's best, and I would really appreciate some advice, suggestions, criticism even, whatever, to help me make up my mind. The only true constant is that he CANNOT give up his rubber bag! It is as strong an addiction as any drug or alcohol related thing, and if I was that upset about it, I should have heeded his warning and not married him! Whaddya think, gals....what should I do? Please? Be as ;positive or negative as you wish - you won't offend me - I just want to do the right thing! HELP!!!!