My mother says I am a doormat and he walks all over me. When I hooked up with him I knew about his girlfriend, she is still his girlfriend. I came in the picture by accident and I got pregnant and things being what they are he married me and I have two more kids.

I don't have any animosity for her, I don't feel any jealousy, she is an open book in our house. She lives in her house, she works which is fine, I don't I prefer to be home with the kids. She was with him before I came in the picture and he still likes/loves her and wants her to be in his life and she feels the same way, whether or not he is married to me.

It is sad to me that she does not have an anniversary to celebrate.