Get rid of him -- you are missing out big time
Nah I've never really been interested in vaginal either. I even got labia piercings so I could link the piercings together and keep them that way most of the time. Not locked or anything just like the rings linked together. I was okay with only doing anal (and oral) when he suggested it because I was really worried about getting pregnant, and we were together for years before he proposed and I still said yes. Honestly even if he wanted to do vaginal now I'm not sure I'd say yes, but he's never even suggested it so it's kinda moot.
That's a shame honey. You do realize even with unprotected sex you are infertile about 75% of the time. And since this doesn't seem to be a matter of pregnancy or not, you are missing out on the best part of sex, vaginal orgasms. You are deprived of using your organs the way nature intended. He is abusing, bullying, controlling and domineering you. You sound like those with battered spouse syndrome. What would he do if you took the position that he can't use his penis at all and only his fingers were ok? Turn the tables on him. Unless you are really ok with it this is wrong and totally absurd. Get some professional help for yourself. Then get some with him.
Sorry I took so long to respond. No, he's never forced me into this. I didn't intend to make it sound that way in my confession, but I was just trying to illustrate his attitude towards it. He was clear about it early in the relationship because he wanted me to know what his position was, and I was fine with it so we kept going out.
And while at first I was only okay with it because I didn't want to risk getting pregnant (and still don't) the more we did it the more I liked it and now I really do like only having anal sex and giving oral.
And a part of it, for me at least, is specifically BECAUSE I've never had vaginal. The idea of going the rest of my life without even trying it kind of turns me on. Maybe I'll change my mind about that someday, but until then, gynecologist visits notwithstanding, not even a finger is going in my vagina. I mean, that's the main reason why I got the piercings. Having vaginal sex before I've changed my mind about that aspect would honestly kinda ruin that for me I feel.
If he did want it I would think about it I'm sure, but like I said I'm not sure I'd say yes. I didn't say that just because I'm confused or something, we've been married for 6 years and before that we were together for 4 years, I've had time to think about this all before now.
And it's not like I've never had an orgasm either, I rub my clit, I use vibrators on my clit, he does eat me out (not often but that's more my choice, I'm not usually in the mood for that either,) we just don't have vaginal sex, and I don't use penetrating toys vaginally. I even had an orgasm from rubbing my nipples once, though I haven't been able to repeat that on purpose
Now, after typing all this I'm thinking about it and it's turning me on, I'm going to get off of here and go toy with my ass in front of him. Up to him if he joins in or not lol.
I think you're totally full of shit.
Well I only have anal because I'm a guy and am married to a guy. I only bottom too. It creeps me out to put my cock in an asshole. So for the past 7 years we've been together I bottom anywhere from 4 to 7 tines a week. My husband has a very high sex drive and I find it much easier to let him fuck my ass then blow him
Unlike the confessor (I guess?) I actually do want to have vaginal sex but my husband refuses. After we got married he researched how to do it online and he infibulated me himself so that it healed together, and so if he ever does want to get me pregnant for instance he will have to cut my vulva open again.
