Just putting it out there. My big ex boss and baby daddy is a bigot, old school, opinionated testosterone driven successful executive. And I am so in love with him. When he holds me time stops still. He challenged me to get my shit together and do my part and make some kids. I love being a mom, I could stay home if I wanted, but I really like my job.

I met him at twenty six, had my first kid at twenty nine, my second at thirty two. I don't think I fit the trophy wife/girl friend image. I just don't have the look. What I do have is an 'I am his woman' attitude. I never thought I would be one of the lucky ones, but I am.